22 years old. 6'3 and 185 lbs. I have all the potential in the world but I continue to struggle with this. Some girls just assume Im a douche and must get girls based on my looks alone.

Except it is quite the opposite. I am extremely awkward and the least smooth person I know with women. Im not afraid to make an approach. People say thats the hardest part, but for me its holding a conversation. I just cant seem to do it. I get denied after a minute because I make the atmosphere too awkward. What do you guys ask/say to these girls you meet at a bar????

When did you finally become smooth? When did you have swagger that ladies notice?