So I’m from a country where the guys are very “alpha”. My issue is that I’m nothing like those guys.

Okay so I’m born in the West and have never shared the same struggles as the guys from my country.

In my teenage years I was a social awkward emotional violent teen spending my days watching football and playing Fifa. The dudes from my country however where going on smuggling routes at age 13/14 alone getting smuggled to Europe no family with them at all.

I look at these guys now, I’m 21 and I haven’t got much different circumstances to them we work low end jobs we have religion but our personalities are completely different

As any Middle Eastern/ Central Asian dude would know men are meant to be respected, the boss, be able to attract females without being disrespected or ignored etc etc. They are far more dominant and masculine minded then I am.

I made an account on a sorta religious marriage website and I’ve gotten no likes what so ever. I struggle to get girls and talking to them is even harder. Like I said I was socially awkward and it’s carried on till adulthood. Whenever I met dudes from my home country they always somehow manage to meet girls etc. I’m the “good guy” the dudes I know are crazy, they get in trouble for fighting etc etc, I just don’t know man.

Any Middle Eastern/ Asian guy ready to redpill me or what to do about my situation