So I(30yo, M) have been dating this girl (28yo, F) for 3 months now

Although there are lots of positive, i m not entirely sure about her.

Yet she’s been trying to make things go fast and now we’re seeing each other twice a week and going no condoms

I can’t lie, I like the sex and i like her too for the most part, but I am at a stage where I want to find the right woman and I feel like I need more space to think.

I tend to get very emotionally involved in those type of situations, and it could have effects on my productivity at work and in other areas of my life, because that s all my brain can think about.

Any idea on how to chill out ?