I read mgtow and red and all sorts of other subreddits. And the one thing I took to heart was take a paternity test before you sign the birth certificate. When the baby was born I refused to sign it I managed to bullshit my way out of it by saying I was under a lot of stress which I was and i'll sign it later. I never suspected her of cheating at any point in our relationship but you can't be too careful don't want to be a chump ten years down the line bitching on reddit. So I get a dna sample and send it in for testing it comes back and its not mine. I was worried I somehow took the dna sample wrong or something send it in again comes back not mine again. Then a third time because I am stupid and again 0%. Waste of 300$. Anyway I tell her about it and you can guess what happens denial then blame. I was hurt but relieved that I wasn't another victim of paternity fraud and glad I caught it so soon. I catch another break when she says she is going to stay with her parents for a while. She made a big show of it too how a recovering newly mother is being kicked out onto the streets with her child. I get all her stuff stuff it in my truck and drive down and left it all on her parents yard. Then I sent her a text to not come back and that we are though and to have fun raising the bastard child. Then I posted the three paternity tests on facebook sent it too all her friend, family, associates, and strangers before she could start blaming me and saying I beat her how I am a deadbeat or whatever. I start getting hate not from just her family not surprised with that but my own family my mom and dad tried talking to me my mom was worse because she was attached to the baby and tried to guilt me into taking her back because I was their for them in the waiting room and genetics don't matter and he needs a father and that I was the father. My father tried to tell me to "man up" and raise the bastard child then started getting angry with me for it basically telling me I have a obligation to be a tool for a woman who cheats on me and of course told me that child needs a father. I told him only losers raise other men's children and he told me to leave. He was always a weak man very submissive to my mom his entire life. I think he was worried about how this made him look some father. My brothers were totally supportive on the other hand said I made the right call.Then they both really got pissed when they found out about the facebook post. Both told me it wasn't anyone else business and that I shouldn't have posted it and I told them that woman who cheat tend to blame the man and I was protecting myself from the false charges that I could potentially get and they just told me they were disappointed in me and that I made them look like fools. I think they were just worried about how this made them both look in the eyes of the public they always were those kind of people but I didn't think they would throw me under the bus for it. She never tried getting child support out of me for whatever reason. I did tell her I didn't sign the birth certificate and she can't get anything out of me. I full expected that she would try anyway. A few weeks later I find out she apparently slept with a married teacher and is trying to get child support from him. I think she is lying again though but who knows. I am not getting anymore hate text or mail from her family I guess they might have some decency after seeing the paternity test. My parents apologized through facebook made a big show of it then I had the good idea to comment that I can't believe your going to give that cheating whore money. They weren't but now they had to lest they look bad. They call me up again fuming and I told them that they are his grandparents they were waiting for the baby in the waiting room genetics don't matter and he needs grandparents. Pretty proud of that one. Last I heard she is going to leave town soon because of how the facebook post shamed her. No idea if my parents gave her the money I blocked them. I am probably going to leave this is a small town everyone knows each other and I am tired of the stares fuck'em though but I am pretty hurt by what my parents did and just want to get away from them.
Pretty proud of how I handled it. I got pretty damn lucky compared to a lot of other men who still have to pay for children that they know are not theirs.
