I don't know if anyone else can relate to this but since I became a MGTOW my standards for what I want out of life has skyrocketed to point of snobbery and just plain haughtiness at times.
Some examples:
- I used to eat whatever foods I craved. Now I've cut out all sodas and several of my favorite foods from my life because the majority of them are empty calories, loaded with sugar and filled with terrible chemical that will just make me fat. My family has noticed this shift and says I'm very picky and difficult. I can't help but look at then with judgement as the guzzle down diet coke because it's "healthier', packets of chips and cookies and their oily cooking in general.
- I work out 5 days a week consistently using push ups, pull ups and dumbbells. My goal is not really to build massive bodybuilder muscles but just to become lean and tonned. I'm a skinnyfat hard gainer (I've never weighed more than 160 lbs in my life) so I figured that it's better to play my strengths. I rather be skinny with a bit of muscle, bulky with a gut like some bodybuilder and power lifters. The more effort I put into my training, the more I can't stand people who are anti-exercise (fat acceptance, fat logic) and just lazy gluttons in general.
- I care far more about my fashion. I only wear my lame clothes in my room and I tend to rinse and repeat. My wardrobe is always packed with my best clothes (washed, ironed and perfumed) so that I'm always one of the best dressed men wherever I go. Sometimes I'll dress down a bit for quick shopping errands but even then I try to not to look too scruffy. People around me think I'm doing this to get the attention of women and when I tell them that isn't the reason, they start to question whether I'm gay. Lol. It's plain and simple. Since I became MGTOW, I feel like a motherfucking King on the inside, so I just thought that it's about time the exterior reflected the royalty within. ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
- I have very little patience for blue-pilled TV shows and soapies that my family likes to watch. I don't want to be influenced by that beta male/simp/mangina programming on any level so I don't spend my evenings with them. Which is kinda sad but it is what I have to do as a late bloomer trying to re-invent himself. I prefer to spend my time learning about European language, viewing digital art and listing to red pill/Mgtow content that actually engages my brain.
- I sold my PS4, much to the shock of my family and friends because when most people think of me, the first thing that comes to mind is gamer. I have no intention of buying another console but nor do I look down on gamers or video games. It's just that achievements in the video game world don't mean squat in real life (unless you're a pro-gamer or something). I want to level up in life so that I can finally shut up all the annoying NPC's around me. Do you know what really makes a feminist toss and turn in her sleep? It's not some MGTOW playing a "sexist" game like GTA 5 nope. It's when a well groomed, handsome man with a variety of financial skills starts endorsing MGTOW and influencing other men to live the good life.
- I'm much more interested in European countries and their way of life and I'm planning to leave the African continent for good. To make it clear, I have nothing against black people (I'm a black man after all) but I can't stand ghetto behavior and the village idiot mentality of some of the people in my area. When I meet up with other educated black people like myself (who don't have a perpetual victim complex) it's like a breath of fresh air. Blacks like this do exist in Africa but there are a greater number of them outside of Africa.
In short becoming a MGTOW means that one thing for me:
I deserve better than what I currently have. And I'm going to put in the effort each day so that I can live the type of life I don't need a vacation from, while being surrounded by those who get me. Anything less is beneath me. Far...beneath me. And if that makes me a selfish, child-free, elitist, bougie black snob, [insert insults here] ... then so be it mothefucker. MGTOW for life!