So I was one of those five years ago who thought marriage would make my life better. Ignored all the red flags and even procreated with a woman who was ungrateful. I worked 12-18 hour days come home no food cooked for me, paying bills, putting money in her bank account, come home cook my own meal, clean the house at 3am cook my lunch and went to sleep with only an hour of sleep. By this one particular day when her and the in laws went to myrtle beach and I denied the invite I stumbled across MGTOW. I was instantly red pilled. So they came back after a week and that’s where it all went downhill. I didn’t clean up the mess they made prior to leaving her mom egged on a argument between us that prompted her to throw all my stuff out along with me. I was damn near homeless living out of my car some weeks when it was 7-14 degrees outside or living in a run down hotel. Then was asked to do this, do that, etc all while she’s laid up with another man in the same house that I paid bills for on Facebook telling lies that I’m in a relationship with someone else which wasn’t true due to the fact I was eating from homeless shelters most days and a relationship wasn’t something I needed when I was still married and homeless. I ended up loosing my job because of the amount of time I needed to step away from work, they let me go. Now while this was going on she was blowing my phone up with threats of child support, personal attacks and throughout all of the false allegations I kept my head high. I was down on my luck, barely eating some days and I still made it a point to get my daughter diapers and wipes. So one day I decided to go visit my daughter and she told me that “I want us to be great coparents” me being the fool I was I didn’t learn my lesson. She would brag about the number of men she would meet on Facebook dating app to me while we’re married. Again run to Facebook and tell a lie about me that has nothing to do with my current actions. So I find out that she’s trashing me so bad on Facebook everyone thinks I’m a deadbeat mind you the moment I moved out she couldn’t afford any of the bills the same as when I lived there. But it was told I didn’t pay any bills. Now fast forward to the day of our divorce I didn’t say anything to her she sat next to me and tried to speak to me. I ignored her. Her lawyer tried to speak to me I gave her the look that I’m not her to be your friend. So we go in judge swears us in she told the court we were incompatible the judge asked me and I told her yes it’s true which I shouldn’t have done for her due to everything she did to me.. once the judge approved the divorce I walked out so damn fast it was probably the fastest I’ve ever moved in my life. Now presently I’m still dealing with her but from all that I’ve learned going MGTOW she feels hurt because I don’t have a nice thing to say too her. She even goes as far to brag about throwing me out on the street.. “Get your money up” meanwhile at the time she stated that I already started a business, bought a 30k$ car bank account started to build up had a better paying job, ended up finding the value in building for myself and being a great father for my daughter. Meanwhile, she’s texting me to do things. And I set a boundary and she turned into a child and I just laugh. If it wasn’t for me looking at MGTOW content I wouldn’t have never re-evaluated the nonsense I got myself into. I stopped paying all the bills by myself and I demanded to know where’s all the money going and it became a issue. So I was happy with her filling for divorce. I ignored so many things that I should’ve seen from the beginning and I learned a valuable less. They’re never yours, it’s just your turn.
