I approached, failed, then got blasted on IG

dopefits · 2017-01-19T23:59:39+00:00

She's just doing this to create drama, which women feed of. Don't reward her by making some statement or some deleting your social media accounts. Deleting your social media would be letting her win and breaking frame.

I remember a friend that got outed for sending a girl messages like "do you wanna come over and fuck". It was talked about for like a week but he recovered and still has a very high SMV.

If someone asks just say she's full of it.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-01-19T23:59:09+00:00

Your SMV is not high enough. Women love to make examples out of men they perceive to be lower value to boost themselves, feed their ego and make themselves feel better.

Good on the approaching. You did nothing wrong(assuming you weren't a beta with your approach and did it with confidence).

take all my social media down

Good idea regardless

jnsu_ · 2017-01-20T02:54:42+00:00

lmfao. wanna turn this in ur favor say "i appreciate the fan love😘"

HaloLASO · 2017-01-20T00:22:34+00:00

Unless you did something extremely odd, I would say that it sounds like you did nothing wrong. You gave it your best shot. Honestly, it sounds like she has some sort of histrionic issue and is seeking attention. I mean, what kind of normal woman would stalk the person she rejected and blow the situation out of proportion? No one the post a week from now. If possible, you could report the post she made about you too.

oatmeal-is-goodyummm · 2017-01-19T23:33:39+00:00

Fuck her women are weird

Werkzeug81 · 2017-01-20T05:14:03+00:00

Own it dude. Some girl did that to me after I made fun of her and I got tons of bro respect in the end. Tons of people asking what happened and laughing dying at the story.

EntitledChadJThunder · 2017-01-20T05:33:35+00:00

THis isn't ideal, but work with what you have. This is good publicity and attention that you can spin. If you are attractive, just tell people that ask you about it "She's crazy, some girls don't take rejection well."

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-01-20T07:26:05+00:00

I live in a small town with no options to move

Bullshit. Fucking move.

She stalked me to link my name, fb info, IG username while the whole time blowing the entire interaction out of proportion in the comments.

While I would be tempted to post "Wow. Stalk much?" you're probably better off just letting shit die down.

I've already gotten messages from people I know saying wtf, this can't be true, what's going on.

If there are no witnesses you can totally deny it and make her look delusional. Reply to your friends with "Wut? I wouldn't fuck her with a STOLEN dick." She's being an ungracious, total cunt. You owe her nothing.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-01-20T08:48:57+00:00

Agree and amplify.

Comment and say how much you fucking enjoyed the look on her face when she was shuffling for words. Say "And you left out the best part... ;) "

That'll put a pipe in her wheels

iexistbitch · 2017-01-20T11:14:22+00:00

I can relate completely(check my history if interested). The other commenters gave great advice. I can only recommend is never apologizing to ANYONE. It is our job to approach. We bear the stresses, and carry the mental scar of rejections. Yet we are persecuted for doing our job designated by evolution.

Fuck anyone who asked, memorize those responses to them that the other commenters posted, don't delete your media. Be strong, we are behind you.

CSWY · 2017-01-20T19:25:38+00:00

own it bro. She's obviously very weird and crazy if she went through the effort to link all your social media just because you approached her. If i were you i'd comment something flirty on the pic to maintain frame and show you don't give a fuck that you got rejected. because you don't. also maybe something like "i'm flattered you went through the trouble of finding my FB, i must have left a good impression" or some snarky shit like that that exposes her for the weird cunt she is.

SisyphosOnTop · 2017-01-20T18:08:31+00:00

Ignore. If people ask you directly, deny.

Title	I approached, failed, then got blasted on IG
Author	throwawaypuatrp
Upvotes	6
Comments	20
Date	January 19, 2017 11:28 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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