I'm a 21 year old electrical engineering student from Islamabad, Pakistan. In our society, there's no concept of dating or getting laid before marriage. So what you term as the friendzone is a victory for us. Anyways, I'm in junior year. So I have a major crush on two girls in university. I chased one for over two years and talked once to the other. One thing I'm postively certain of is that there's no natural connection and they only respond out of courtesy. Now, the thing is I'm insanely obsessed with the first girl, and it has ruined my life. I can barely think of anything else. The thing is whenever I see other guys chilling out with girls (those two in particular) I lose my effing shit and feel extreme jealousy, worthlessness and a inferiority complex. The fact that I'm introverted, somewhat socially anxious, depressed and probably have ADHD dosen't make things better. I need some serious and practical advice to stop putting girls on the pedestal, to stop obsessing over them. Actually I want to take them out if the equation of my life ( even if temporarily).
