Seriously I hear this all the time and to me it sounds like a lame excuse like they think only the best times can be around your college days. Like people just give up on their goals or whatever afterwards. It might be because these people think well you got marriage and kids afterward and you are grinding at a job. And they never thought outside the mindset well how about go your own way and dont settle down. Since marriage just kills the soul of a man I swear. Since you got a wife who has divorce like a gun to your head and you know it. She could cheat and walk out on you and theres jack shit you can do except cough up half your income. What do you think guys? Older men out there, tell me is it really over when college ends? I dont think so. (And if you are smart you dont go so you dont have student debt on you for years)