I'm personally not a virgin but I've seen this a number of times. A woman whose been around the block has zero problem shaming a guy who has trouble getting dates and laid but when the same thing happens to her it's almost a hate crime and personal attack.
This is one of the double standards that bothers me a lot. I've been with two women myself, and see other people in my social circle who are either not actively looking out for sexual partners or are pursuing other hobbies / career goals themselves.
Most men are incels-which means Involuntary celibate. If you cannot get laid whenever you want, that is an involuntary celibate which means damn near 90% of guys unless you happen to be the top 10%. However this is simply untrue.
Getting laid ain't the problem, if I want it bad enough I can go and pay for it or go to the bar with the local whore and fuck her after we're both good and drunk (it's not that hard).
