"Programmed" as in biologically. Or are they influenced by modern day feminism and that's why the whole situation is so problematic? In addition, if tommorow, modern day feminism broke down, culture as a whole regards men and women truly equal (aka not giving women a free pass in a lot of things), and the courts were fixed and geared towards true justice (so they don't take into account whether individuals have a dick or pussy between their legs), would things be any different or will female nature still be dominant?