I was reading some posts about marriage and remembered a discussion I had with a friend of mine. It was about me and the future, and I said something like "I want to be married and happy like you" The look on his face was priceless and the way he changed his demeanor and speech, was close to 180. He told me not to chase a girl and walk away if something happened which it did. I was thinking of saying to those pushing you to get married to say the same thing :" I'd like to be happy like you " and see their reactions to that. Maybe then you may glimpse the truth.