Divorced my now ex wife over 2 years ago. We had a house I inherited, 2 kids, 3 cars. I left, she stayed in the house, kept the car, everything. She has a terrible spending habit, she spent hundreds of thousands of dollars on herself while we were together. About 7 months after I left I found out she was destroying the house, basically the beginning of hoarding. I had to take my kids out of that house by DCYF until she cleaned up and kept it clean. The day came to register her car and she couldn’t so I took it back. She couldn’t afford to move out of the house when the court ordered her to so she was in contempt of court for 9 months. Now she’s living in apartment, with a very small car she can hardly fit our children in, she’s pulled our younger child out of school twice because “she can’t afford it” when really I know she’s blowing the alimony and child support on herself. She feels entitled like I owe her something for leaving her. But when I see her she has her hair done, new clothes, nails done, new shoes. Like I KNOW she’s blowing the money. I don’t feel bad for her, she could have helped herself by getting a full time job and not a seasonal job, but it’s sad to see that she pretty much had it made in this divorce and she’s thrown it all away.