Wife wants me to move out. Don't want to be away from my kids or lose rights? What now? No physical altercations or even really verbal.

ClemsonFanMikey · 2017-03-11T18:23:15+00:00

I'm not a lawyer, but I would tell you not to. I believe in most states you moving out, even at her request, constitutes abandonment.

It's time to talk to a lawyer.

Rosebud2261 · 2017-03-12T11:59:10+00:00

I agree with the comments...DO NOT move out! Speak with a lawyer and even be careful there, "some" lawyers are only out to fill your head with fear. Use caution, seek advise and fight for the right to be with your kids. No matter what NEVER abandon your children. Avoid fighting in front of them, your wife may use them against you. Do not speak ill of their mother to them. The children are not to be used by either of you for your selfish gain. They are not pawns in this fight, and they too grieve for what is happening. Even if nothing said in front of them, they sense much. Please be sensitive to their little hearts.

If divorce is imminent and you become involved with another gal make sure she loves those kids. My father remarried and his new wife wanted nothing to do with his kids. My father listened to her, abandoned me/us and I carried anger against him for years. I was eleven years old. I finally received counseling in my adulthood.

PrettyFlyForCompSci · 2017-04-05T06:09:22+00:00

DONT. DO. IT.

SEEK. LEGAL. COUNCIL.

Title	Wife wants me to move out. Don't want to be away from my kids or lose rights? What now? No physical altercations or even really verbal.
Author	Tossmeawaze
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	March 11, 2017 4:47 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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