19M, at university.

Recenty me and my friends met up with a group of girls at the university bar. I showed up late but made some small talk with everyone but then had to leave. Later I found out that they said to my friends that they think I'm a fuckboy who must get laid a lot.

I was quite surprised by this, because it's far from true. I haven't had that many hookups, mainly because I think of my PMO addiction (tho I'm on a long streak atm and think I'll win soon).

I was also surprised cos another group of girls thought I was gay. So how can I be seen as gay by some girls and then a fuckboy who must fuck girls by another.

How is it possible to create such an impression in short time? I didn't act cocky or anything. I showed up well dressed and had my hair done quite well, but aside from that all I did was make eye contact and ask them very generic questions about themselves. I wasn't nervous talking to them but the convo to me felt plain.

People usually tell me I'm very chill and most people say I look like a stoner. In terms of looks I don't even know, I'm 6"2 and skinny (155lbs) but I have girls approach me in clubs lately and tell me I am good looking/handsome, which I find odd cos I don't have the greatest jawline. Literally judt height, nice hair and dress sense.

I mean I wish I was the fuckboy who gets laid a lot, but it was almost like the validation of having that image was better than actually hooking up with a girl, as crazy that sounds, I've never had validation like this before.