Summary : Got married. She lied about everything including her health. I tell her to be a good wife or leave. She chooses to leave. Now wants to get back. I have already moved on mentally. Total married time : 3 months. Ignored a lot of Red Flags in the initial days. What was I thinking ? I thought these things will get resolved.

Edit 1 : English is not my mother tongue. So you will find some mistakes. A long write up.

Edit 2 : Long story turned into short story. Removed all crap only the main points.

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A christian up bring. For me marriage was for life. Got Bluepilled in college and media.

It was arranged marriage. She acted very naive and submissive in those 3 months. Always eager and pleasing. I though I had found my unicorn.

Marriage happens. Everything okay for 3 days.

On honeymoon and after she gets upset for a trivial reason. Acts moody. Acts not interested in marriage. Shows excessive love in form of others.

The situation is tense at home, I try to communicate and resolve issue. She is not open, she wants to be closed.

Further few months. She tries to put a wedge between me and my family. She wanted to stay in a separate house. I decline this.

Whenever its me and her she was good, sex is great, she is great. Things go south when her parents and cousins involve in our matters.

Tries to manipulate and control me.

3 months into the marriage I realize that she has hidden her health issue from me. She told a lie. I got her medical report I get to know she is suffering from hormonal imbalance condition. I wonder what else is she hiding form me. Doesn't want to have my baby. I was angry for she hide this form me. I asked her as to why she did not tell this before the marriage. She keeps silent and gets upset doesn't say anything. I take the responsibility of the situation and tell her that I accept her as she is. I tell her its okay. (A mistake).

MIL accuses me of mentally torturing her daughter. She leaves home for 3 months.

Priest and few christian friends convince me to take her back. Blue pilled me I take her back. She comes home.

I tried to teach her what the Bible says about the marriage. She didn't listen she responded saying reading all the stuff in the Bible makes her stressed. Meaning, being a Godly wife was a stress for her. I try to change her but its of no use.

Trivial issue. I scold her the argument grows. I had it enough. I give her a ultimatum if you want to stay be a good wife else leave. She chooses to leave.

Next days all of her family comes and takes her with them.

Then they go to police station to file a Domestic violence case against me. I am summoned by police.

Initially I loved her. I didn't want to give her up. I wanted to try again. This is when I found TRP. and everything that happened. Everything that she said and did made sense now.

Now they want me to take her back.

From my side that relation is over, moved on. No more turning back. I am happy. Drama free life.

I am waiting now. Realizing and angry at what happening. Sometimes I do think of good memories but immediately kick it out as I should not dwell on it. I am angry that I got fooled. I was cheated.