- Women are seen as less Competent and not taken Seriously, WHY?
Because Patriarchy
Men are deemed as worthless losers until they "prove" their worth and only then are they considered as "Men". Girls are considered Women when they reach 18. People hold Men to a Higher Standard of Performance and berate them when they fall short. Feminists only see the Men that have finished their "Task" of proving themselves, they ignore the fact that plain janes regularly marry these Men, why work hard to become a CEO when you can marry one?
The Solution:Either we stop telling Men that they need to "prove" their worth or we start telling women to prove their worth as well. We can't hold Men&Women to different standards and expect everyone to respect Women the same way as they respect Men. No matter how hard people try to rationalize, they know in the back of their minds that Women are NOT being held to the same standards that Men are.
- Women face so many Sexually Aggressive/Stalker Men who can't take "No" for an Answer, HOW did we arrive at this situation and why is it mainly a Women's issue?
Because Patriarchy
Some of the common reasons Women give as to why they don't ask out men is "I don't want to be rejected" or "I don't want to be seen as desperate". OK, but realize that you're sending Society a message that Men are the only ones emotionally strong enough to handle rejection.
The Solution:We need to stop telling men that its their "Job/Role" to be pursuers and stop shaming them for being single or celibate, these are the social pressures that force Men to aggressively pursue Women because this is what Society expects of Men. If Women started pursuing Men in large enough numbers, we could arrive at a parity.
- Women are considered Weak, WHY?
Because Patriarchy
Unlike men, Women are ALLOWED to be Weak. Everyone treats Men as if the're capable of solving any problem using sheer willpower, just take a look at these annoying self-help gurus in the manosphere, Feminists bluntly tell men to "be more emotional&seek help" as if overcoming your lifelong psychological conditioning is something as easy as flipping a Switch. People stop emotionally comforting boys after a certain age, everyone expects you to "Get Over" the worst kinds of Mental Anguish. These kinds of flippant attitudes towards Men reinforces the idea that Men are simplistic automatons, not emotionally complex beings. OF COURSE Women are "weak" compared to Machines that feel no pain, that need NO help and are expected to pull out confidence,charisma&success out of a hat. When they can't do it, we look Men dead in the eyes and say "WTF is wrong with you!? The "REAL MAN" User manual claims that you can perform this task with ease! GET TO IT!" When women fall short of something, we hold their hands and say "Its okay dear, We Understand! Its ok!"
The statistical reality is that Men are more likely to get violently assaulted&murdered and yet we only tell women to be careful when they go outside. And plz don't give me that "Men are physically stronger" excuse, all Men are not built equally but we're still expected to not only fight Men stronger than us but also defend women and fight for our Nations.
The Solution: We need to stop treating men like they're machines and automatically Women wouldn't be "weak" in comparison to the equally vulnerable Human Men. Society needs to stop revoking Men's dignity using "REAL Man" B.S. Its the lack of Social Recognition of Men as vulnerable humans that makes them appear "Stronger". ALL Humans are vulnerable, no one can remain strong 24/7.
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