Some weeks ago I met a girl, we made out, no sex.

After that we tried to meet up again but failed to do so. Once I had no time when she offered a date. Once she had no time and once we found a date but she flaked.

As some weeks are gone now (3? 4?) I don't think that there is any attraction left. I closed the case.

A friend convinced me to reach out again either to get her as female friend and get access to her social circle or to use her as a pivot/social proof. I didn't like the idea because somehow I thought it was a bit needy to ask her again after she flaked. But honestly who cares? Finally, he convinced me also because I thought she'll flake/decline again.

So I wrote her and funnily she accepted. Doesn't mean that she'll come but now I need to reconsider my options. Btw I invited her for a beer and told her a friend will be there as well. We meet in my favorite bar where I also met her the first time.

So my options are:

  1. Game her
  2. Game everybody except her

Maybe 1 involves 2. Maybe I should just go for 2 and if it magically works out and attraction is build again and I'll focus on her.

What's your opinion? Any hints to optimize the outcome? Any traps to avoid?