Text-logistics help.

So I've been struggling to make a meet happen with a girl from campus because logistics. She lives with this really strict cousin and the last 12 or so messages (she:6, me:3, varying lengths) have basically been me trying to convince her to give this cousin an excuse to get out of the house so we can meet. Messages are randomly spaced on my both my and her part (I've been busy :) so I wasn't waiting by the phone but I checked messages whenever I got the chance). End of story she's pretty sure her (male) cousin will know something is up.

Logisitcs really fucking with me because we both don't drive and from what I understand, her cousin won't let her out of the house (basically implied, not stated so I'm hoping that I'm not just getting nexted and this cousin is genuinely strict)

Was supposed to meet her today, don't really see it happening, I think I've found a niche to reschedule in on monday. The problem is I don't know if she'll be like fuck this it's too much "whatever"( feelz over reelz stuff)...

How do I make this a win; do I mention it now or wait till sunday night; I might run into her on crampus during the day. This isn't happening tonight afaik and I feel like I need a chance to reconnect with kino and stuff with her anyhow... I feel like another text makes me seem overtly invested in making this happen..