What techniques do you use to game super shy girls? I'm being cocky with this super introverted MILF but I'm not sure what else to say or do without pushing her away...she takes a day or more to reply to texts when I'm being "sexually" playful but still agrees to hang out...but if we are texting about logistics she replies quicker. Any way to get her to open up to me?

Here is the story: I'm like twenty years younger than her. She has been in a long term relationship with the same guy for fourteen years. They are not married. I know her from a workplace years ago. Had a crush on her as a kid. Ran into her randomly years later. Asked to exchange numbers. She texted first. We hung out once so far. She is super shy. She might see me as a child still since we met when I was a young...any tips on how to seduce her?

EDIT: She has not shown any sexual interest in me... YET. I want to know how to seduce her. lol Besides being shy she knows I have women throwing themselves at me daily so how do i make her feel comfortable like showing her Im not just looking for sex from her as I can get sex easily.