Feminist mad that her friend isn't too picky and doesn't wants to take advantage of trad gender roles

Crosspost "When I judge another woman for only wanting to get married, does that make me a bad feminist?" from /r/TwoXChromosomes:

My friend recently texted me this (30F): "I just want to find my person and settle down. Honestly, I wouldn't care so much about the job, the location, or anything else."

Am I a bad feminist for judging her lack of career ambition? Does feminism mean accepting every woman's decision no matter what?