Oneitis

RedSkeller · 2017-02-28T03:39:50+00:00

First step is recognizing the issue, congrats. You need to cut her out. If she's an ex, block her on everything - don't even think about plating her until you bang at least three new women. Oneitis is the lack of options. You don't have any so you focus on the one you used to have. You need forward momentum and new prospects. Go out and build, don't go back to a broken situation.

Herdsengineers · 2017-02-28T05:02:42+00:00

If you want to land her, you need to reset things. You do that by disappearing. Then improve yourself. When she runs into you again, hopefully she sees you differently. Especially if you are ignoring her to flirt with other girls.

But by then, if you have really grown, you won't give a shit about her anymore. At least not the same way.

iwanttoracecars · 2017-02-27T23:40:22+00:00

Stop. Clearly your aware of it and reading some material. So either make the best of it or find a plate and just DGAF.

Title	Oneitis
Author	Apathological
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	February 27, 2017 11:36 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5wkcf9/oneitis/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/oneitis.83375 https://theredarchive.com/post/83375

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