I have extremely high confidence, great social status, am attractive, have options... last week I got rejected by a classmate (law school) but the details on this rejection are still a little fuzzy to me. I honestly think she liked me or still does, but rejected me because her ugly/single/jealous friends (many of them mutual friends) sabotaged my game.
Anyways, that is beside the point. It stung for a day or so, and admittedly I told this girl some things I probably should have held closer to the vest in terms of having developed feelings for her, but I can honestly say I respect the girl and think no less of her for it. I was willing to pull-back and I haven't really gone out of my way to initiate contact with her, but she has been initiating contact with me and we even hung out on a 1 to 1 basis for a bit.
Would I still fuck this girl? Absolutely. Are my expectations different now? Yes. Am I cool to just be a friend? As of today, yes. At the end of the day, she's better looking and more fun to be around than 90% of the girls I know, and 100% of my other female classmates.
I'm seeing another chick on the side too, so it's not like I'm hung up. I'm seeking advice for this situation though. For me to just go full no-contact or ignore her is not a genuine reaction, because we never dated to begin with and I'm honestly cool with her.
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