He’s been married 4 years, with her for 13 on and off. I’m not going into their history as it..really is a bit of a shit show on both sides. He’s helped raise her daughter since she was 2. She pushed (forced) them into a Poly relationship after their 1st year of marriage. (Can’t really call it poly if the husband doesn’t consent, huh?) He went to care for his Dad with Dementia in Florida after a year in that situation but they kept in touch. Then Covid hit and in March & her Polyboy left to shelter with Family. She asked him to come up (to Connecticut) to be with her and her daughter. So he packed up the Florida apartment, flew his Dad up into a New Townhome, moved their stuff from the old apartment into the new home. That was March. July she goes looking for a new guy and found “the one” in September. She’s been dating the new guy since.

He’s had enough and he’s divorcing her in February. The daughter, now 14, “seems” to be taking everything in stride but tells him she’ll miss him so much after he moves.

I’ll show him this post after a week of comments. The reason: I want him to know it wasn’t just coming from me. That’s why I stated this as informatively as possible. I even almost left out the part where he’s a combat vet with ptsd taking care of his Viet Nam-era vet father with dementia.

Have at it.