Depression that comes with seeing reality

FlexGunship · 2017-03-05T20:46:44+00:00

Hey.

1) high-quality men like high-quality women.

2) you can't find your instincts and you can't fight nature.

So, how do you use (1) to your advantage while accepting the truth of (2)? Easy.

Embrace the things that make you feminine. Don't look down on men who appreciate you for your femininity and let masculine men retain their masculinity.

Success is not a masculine trait. You're fine there. Female doctors are awesome. Ive dabbled in nurses in my time, I can only imagine a doctor would know anatomy even better. (Btw, all the nurses simultaneously love and hate doctors, just an FYI.)

Learn to spot a man with genuinely high value. RedPillers are NOT assholes in the sense that you're discussing. At least I'm not. I'd love to settle down eventually (I'm a 31yo engineering manager) and most great men will want to also.

Lastly, if you're cute, enjoy getting plowed now. If you settle down with a high-quality man you'll want to keep him. And, historically, women are prone to infidelity. If he's genuinely high-quality, he'll leave at the first sign of infidelity. So, like I said, get your legs in the air now, and know you'll need to knock it off when the time comes.

silver-gun · 2017-03-05T20:55:35+00:00

I want to slap him whenever I see a submale orbiting around a worthless bitch. I wish someone slapped me hard.

Once I joined an online chat room as a girl with HB6 profile photo. It was really depressing to see my gendermates being fucking clowns. It was even more depressing to think I used to be this way.

Docbear64 · 2017-03-05T21:09:04+00:00

Don't be sad you have to appreciate the world for what it is . If you're going to med-school with the expectation it's going to make a man more attracted to you ..... the only men who may be turned on by your PHD...are the type of men you probably don't want to attract .

Don't feel bad about being a pretty girl and getting positive attention that's just how the world works, please do feel bad for being a bitch to someone who doesn't warrant it .

If you want to find a decent man the time to start vetting is now while you're pretty and not jaded ( age and the number of men you " experience" will increase this) . If you want to go to med-school awesome but find time in your life to go out on dates and meet decent men now . It may not always be convenient but plenty of women have said " I'll find love after I get my degree" only to learn that all the good ones that wanted to settle down are off the market . You'll be competing for the less good ones and men who you are attracted to but aren't interested in settling .

At the end of the day the pill is about understanding and appreciating that our ethical thoughts as humans and our biological motivations as humans are at odds . It's why betas get shit on , it's why alphas get chased, it's why women generally have an easier path in life . You didn't make the world this way , it just is . Find your place, find what will actually make you happy and pursue it .

blackedoutfast · 2017-03-05T22:54:27+00:00

don't let guys buy my drinks, if anything I gave away more beer yesterday than I accepted.....But every time a guy does, I either politely refuse or somehow pay them back for it.

this is one of things i pay attention to and look for. it's a very good sign when a girl doesn't like scamming thirsty dudes for free drinks.

I haven't slept with or hooked up with anyone outside my 2 LTRS.

also a very good sign for potential LTR material. don't give into peer pressure and start slutting it up riding a lot of random cocks. the more guys you fuck, the harder it will be for you to bond and form good emotional connections with guys in the future.

i know lots of girls in their 30s who spent their 20s fucking lots of different dudes. these girls are desperate to find a good husband, but they feel like no man is ever good enough for them, no matter how good he is objectively. they don't remember all of the men in the past as distinct human beings, they just remember one guy had perfect abs, and one guy was rich, one guy had a big dick, one guy was great at sex, and one guy was really cool, and one guy was really funny, one guy was rich, etc. and now when they meet a man, he can never compete with all of that. and while i'm sure there probably are men out there who are better in every area, those almost perfect men have zero interest in some hard to please girl in her mid 30s.

I'm lucky to be decently attractive,

if true, you don't have anything to worry about. however it's important that you don't assume that you are attractive just because guys pay attention to you and want to have sex with you. guys want to have sex with a girl, even the unattractive and ugly girls get attention.

definitely don't want to date a guy that worships the ground I walk on because no one deserves that. However, I definitely am not attracted to assholes. I love compassionate people because i'm really emotional. I want to meet a guy that will take care of me that I can also take care of. Am I living in a fairytale world?

avoid all the thirsty betas who try to put you on a pedestal just because you have a pussy, but also avoid the fuckboys who just want to fuck around with no real intention of ever being in an LTR with you.

being an alpha doesn't mean being an asshole. what you need to look for are the ambitious, passionate, focused, strong men who aren't afraid of traditional masculinity. men who are natural leaders who can use and appreciate your support.

Reading TRP makes me feel that when I turn 32 i'm going to have to settle for a "beta" dude and then have a sexless marriage that leads to divorce.

if you start fucking around and ride the cock carousel until you turn 32 and then decide "wait, omg my biological clock is ticking, i better start looking for a husband" then this is a very likely outcome. so don't do that.

I hoping to go to med school soon, but apparently redpilled guys don't like successful women and if anything it will decrease my SMV. But I really want to be a doctor

only you can decide if you really want to be a doctor and go through all those years of hard work. but keep in mind that these are the prime years of your life for finding a good mate and starting a family. as a woman, having a prestigious career and nice salary definitely won't improve your SMV the same as it might for a man. and if you decide to focus 100% on school and career and put off finding a husband until you are stable and established career-wise, being 10 or so years older is going to be a massive hit on your SMV. remember how you don't want to settle for a lame beta when you turn 32?

everything else being equal, your SMV is almsot certainly never going to be higher than it is right now. the men who would be willing to date/LTR/marry you now are going to be much higher quality than the men willing to date/LTR/marry you when you are in your 30s even if you're a doctor.

If I'm never going to get the traditional marriage I've always wanted, then why even bother hoping for it anymore? Should I just accept that things wont work out how I want them to? Accept that i'm going to crash into the Wall someday like every other pretty girl and that's just it?

you should be aware that the wall exists for every woman. it's just biology and a fact of life. your beauty will fade. one day you will be too old to have children. but you shouldn't just assume that things are hopeless because they're not. if you want to have a traditional marriage with a high quality guy with kids and all that, you can do that. but the longer you delay and focus on school/career, the harder it will be for you to find a good man and build a family with him.

Title	Depression that comes with seeing reality
Author	throwaway384009
Upvotes	1
Comments	16
Date	March 5, 2017 8:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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