So here's the thing.. I'm a helpless romantic but also just do crazy shit off the cuff sometimes (tends to be heroic and manly shit) so the Alpha behaviors sometimes show too much.

I left for a 2.5 week roadtrip right after valentines day (and spent the day with her and not other LTRs) gave her a small $25 earring present before leaving and for Valentine's day... She looks super hot with them by the way...

This LTR (4 months since first hookup) complaining that I need to have insecurities. I'm too confident around my friends and I don't let others take control of the situation. I mean no shit. I'm larger and stronger than 90% of people I come around, the implied notion is that I'll just assume control.

Since I am a helpless romantic If I decided to LTR a girl I'm going to do cute/boyfriendy things to invest in her once in a while to reward her for good behavior.

ANYWAYS LISTEN TO HER ACTIONS! Enough of what she said, what she's been doing. Awesome sexuality, we're working together to get her even more involved and finding a new position or act almost every time we hang out.... However she's been hesitant to go out for a drive with me or hang out with others.

Is she just trying to lock down? (I don't mind, just no need for bullshit behavior) I've let her have a day and a half of this behavior so I can tell what's going on. Will asses next time we hang out and either knock it off or talk about it.

Ideas?

edit: not trolling stop being a waste of comment.