I have been folling MRA,MGTOW and RedPill content for 4 or 5 years now,i have started with a video of The Amazing Atheist by chance. I have always been bothered by certain cliche and stereotype even since i was little and very ignorant of life,like men not being able to cook and clean,being inconsiderate,a girl can do anything a man can,etc.. etc..,so maybe i was predisposed to it. I have have watched many sides of this discussion: the one that wants a return to traditional values,the one that bashes women and feminism,the one that focus on legal rights,the one more concerned with men rather than women,the one that tangentially touched this arguments because of media and games,the one outside of time and space,that focus more on the true nature of humans and relationships and so on. I have thought of doing something myself,become an activist. I have raised the issues with family,friends and schoolmates,but never on a serious level. Partly because i live in a different, traditional country,and some of the feminist arguments can be argued. Partly for my ignorance on the argument. Partly for the fact that i cannot feel intellectually honest,since i have a great deal of anger toward women,for legitimate and illegitimate reasons,and i sometimes doubts of the legitimacy of certain claims. But,i have started to see signs of the USA feminism appear in my country. I have also improved my mental health,becoming more emotionally stable and socially skilled,i have been clearing my toughts.

I want to start,to do something, a step in the right direction. But i don't want be one of those that simply bash at women,being moved by anger and emotion,alienating other men and public opinion,and creating another type of eco chamber,like many i have seen in these years that RedPill have become mainstream. I want to be an informed actor, one that truly knows what is talking about , that is capable of actually doing something,to maybe one day doing it.

So,i have to ask: how can i learn the truth? Which books should i read,which studies? What can i do to learn the right way?