Crosspost "You Think If Big Ed Was A Women, People Would Have Reacted Much More Different?" from /r/TooAfraidToAsk:

Kinda confused. If Imagine the things big ed said as a women, my mind would have seen it some lines as cute or something. Some lines think the same, regardless of gender

Also the nickname he has no neck ed, it's seem so cruel to make fun of someone's physical disabilities(kfs disease). I know he's not a good person but body shaming is body shaming regardless who you do it to you. Ive seen terrible people of all looks, all. Shaming looks only makes you go down to there level

Imagine if it was a female burn victim, did the exact same thing as ed, would we go around saying burnt face Sydney? What about overweight women? Is it okay to body shame them if they do wrong?

There was this episode on 30 day fiancé, we're a terrible women try to force a guy to sleep with her. She was on the bigger side and much much older. Nobody in the comments were making fun of her looks? Not even one person. But when a guy does wrong, and he looks different, then it's okay?

Like to me this seems so overblown. I know couples, attractive ones, aswell who do the exact same issues. Who hurt eatch other. But toxicity is only mention on people you don't find attractive. So I feel like nobody would care if big ed was women or attractive because it seems to simple? Sorry if this sounds confusing

I also see the hypocrisy of others aswell, like i saw post by a girl I know talking about body image and having body dismorphia but also commenting on big ed about "this is what happens when you date an ugly guy". Im like it doesn't feel right to say this. To connect looks to behavior. It can make others think they deserve bad because if they think they are ugly, that might assume that ugly equals to being a bad person

Everything feels wrong but it seems so normal? I'm getting old I guess. Sorry if this sounds like a rant

Guess my question is why is it social acceptable to make fun of guys appearance when they do wrong but not women?

Posted by Professor_Algernon | 25 September 2020 | Link