I got tons of criticim bout being single from my family. They think I'm too picky. They can't understand I don't want a girl that just ruin my life. If I get married she better really love me. This guy just posted this and it feels like what I always saying. I don't want girl in my life for a last resort. I rather be lonely than this. He posted this better than I can explain.

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"I'm female and just turned 43. I am single and for the first time ever I am suffering anxiety about my alone status."

https://www.her.ie/life/agonycant-5-447053

This can easily be translated as, "I no longer have orbiters, and men ignore me. I am having anxiety about not getting attention from men."

This is the common voiced concern of the older females. They had their chance to have a family, but instead took the role of prostitute, selling themselves out for attention and gifts. Now that they are reaching an age of less appeal, they find themselves alone and unwanted, and they don't know how to live with that.

I see this all of the time, and the miserable looks on their faces says it all. They live in regret and misery, and want a man to fix it for them. Typical...

Of course, there is plenty of websites and material out there to shift blame, and make themselves feel better. This is just one of the "dating coaches" females can get, to help them find a man. This is the equivalent to PUA for men. The problem is, females have such short memories. They will be happy and with the perfect man, and forget all that he has done for her, only that she wants more. Shortly after, she dumps him and finds herself depressed and alone again, in this age of perpetual divorce and having sex with anyone and anything.

"10 lies singles tell themselves about love after 40"

https://psychcentral.com/blog/10-lies-singles-tell-themselves-about-love-after-40/

Among my favorite articles about the over 40 female that is single is this one:

15 Reasons Why I Don’t Want To Be 40 And Single

In this, my favorite reasons she gives is when she compares herself with others. Not that she is happy with a man, or cares about him, but how other females have kids and a man, and she wants to not look bad to them. She compares instead of actually cares.

"Comparison is real. Facebook timelines are evil.

It’s easy to go on Facebook and see status updates of friends getting engaged, married, having babies or traveling the world with their mate. And it becomes hard to NOT compare your life to how you see others living."

"My Twenty-Year High School Reunion"

"It’s not fun getting invited to events or dinners when everyone else is married."

"All your friends are married with kids. "

Females miss the point entirely when it comes to marriage and relationships. They see it as a trophy or something to show off. They do not actually have any love in them for the man or even the kids. They just want to display these points of life as a boasting to others. If the man does not serve well enough to put on display, in her eyes, a replacement is already being sought after. This includes, cannot provide enough to brag about in purchases of items or a large home, handsome enough to get other females jealous, or romantic enough be an envy to the network of female braggarts. Six foot tall, six pack abs, six figure income, and some other such standards. Even the triple chin female scarfing down doughnuts with jelly dripping onto her oversized 6x t-shirt thinks she deserves this.