So a 20 something talks about working with an older male in a post. They work together for a period of time, he is professional and never makes a pass or even gives a compliment. When she leaves he sends a text saying good luck and after a few tame texts back and forth says since she's not an employee anymore he can safely say "Nice legs."

Still not safe I guess. She posts his texts and labels him a creep because she is younger and he is older.

I mean can a man over a certain age show sexual interest in a woman without being labeled a "creep?" I'm 40 years old and it's a little disconcerting. The older a man gets the more careful with his sexuality he must be. In another post someone commented saying why is a 40 year old hitting on a younger woman when they can't get it up? Wow. 40 year old men are not only creeps but all have sexual dysfunction. I guess these ageist posts are perfectly fine.

Watch what you say in private messages to women. Anything sexual...even a simple compliment, and your texts may be posted on these subs for its "ewwwww" factor.

I was banned for asking her "What is your cut off age where you say a man giving you a compliment is creepy?" out of curiosity.

I don't care about being banned, the point is this creep thing is out of control - it's become ageism and sexist.

Older sexual women are "cougars", men are "creeps".