My ex cheated on me with another guy, lied to me, tried to cover everything up being "I won't do that again", then proceeded to cheat on me again....called me while high on drugs and called our relationship "stupid". Then she gave her phone to her sister and her sister's boyfriend who proceeded to tell me I need to grow a pair, basically calling me a wimp and weak for being scared for the relationship. And when I tell people apparently it's my fault for having dated a dysfunctional woman. Now imagine if the roles were reversed and I was the cheater and others told her to "woman up"