What if being male means to be fragile when it comes to the love towards women; when it comes to harrassment and to the overall notion that men are disposable and in some cases even deserve said harrassment?
What if those things are what makes the man truely fragile? What if these things are not to be played around with, so society can function better? Or at all? What if we see the effects occur in front of our very eyes?
It is easy to acknowledge that women are fragile when it comes to the physical roam;
but are men not as fragile in the social space?
Just askin'
EDIT:
all systems can be fragile. yet still needed. all systems have a weakest link where they are fragile. impossible to overcome. maybe we as a race should work together to balance fragility out, rather than prospering on another for a few centuries before shit goes down for that reason?
[–]Lethn 3 points4 points5 points (5 children) | Copy Link
It really isn't just me is it? These people are pushing this narrative about men hard.
[–]mgtowolf 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I said, it's the only way they can compete. They want boys to never grow up like girls, they can't compete with grown, competent men.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
well... in my point of view men are tendencywise harder at the surface (what you see with the plain eye) but in social structures we might have to learn a bit from the women. being fragile would not be to be of no use. quite the opposite. it is necessary to know your weak points so you can deligate them and focus on getting better at strengths.
[–]Lethn 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
There's a difference between knowing your weaknesses and implying that men need to be fixed if they don't cry enough.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
well.... see.. if a woman says that men are fragile, you can argue that a system where we fight each other and attack the others' fragility destroys society.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
men... well... are they hard...? on the physical plane it appears this way; but if he recieves a compliment from a beautiful woman, he melts away just as much.
i argue we men are not as hard as it seems when we take a look at out psyche. women are tendencywise better at psychology. thats a fact. and to argue that this is a disadvantage to be taken care of is necessary.
[–]iainmf 1 point2 points3 points (7 children) | Copy Link
What if men are antifragile.
[–]mgtowolf 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I like that one.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
if you were to ask me, men are not so good in socal environments. tendencywise... but being fragile is not the same as being of no use. this is different.
[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s a broad statement. What aren’t men good at in social environments?
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
i would argue that men are physically stronger; and women have to compensate for this. i say her greatest ability is to live more according to her feelings and emotions. and emotions is another set of reality with other rulesets than the physical.
women are also favoured by society at large to begin with:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/15491274/
https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/handle/10012/6958
so to say that women may be more fragile when it comes to the physical (all agree on that one); it is on us to tell them that maybe we are more fragile when it comes to their roam; and that we need compensation on that end. yet... this could also be a long-term goal.
also... not too bad to keep it in the back of your mind if you are being told that men are fragile; then you simply say: may be fragile, but also necessary; better treat us well in these following regards: "...."
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
yet only if you acknowledge your weaknesses.
i argue men are fragile in social interactions.
[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
How are men fragile in social interactions?
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/15491274/
https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/handle/10012/6958
usually... now from personal experience... women are better at feelings, emotions, everything inter-personally.
and thus also on social and society levels; women are naturally better on social-engeneering, if you will.
this does not mean that a man can not be stronger than a woman if he trains himself to be better at social interactions; but women have a natural advantage; as seen above.
women as well would need this very ability if a natural and nature based environment for the protection from nature (by men) and for the protection of other men (by men); as we all know our inherent trait is to procreate and it is a joy to see a woman only walk by.
in my oppinion women have misused their powers and treat us like shit, because of false narratives; in the social plane you have no immediate feedback of what you do and you can change the perception, and thus the reality uppon which you act, of the situation by reframing it; meaning that men are being told that they are treated that way because they deserve it for their past/present/future.
i wanted to add that the human race seems not to be "designed" for war. men can easily be ripped off their reason for (physical) aggression and women are naturally not aggressive. also if the testicles were inside the body, the organism is unable to procreate; thus evolutionary unable to change this trait.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
The argument on both sides is wrong: it should be that humans in general are fragile, both men and women. But I'd also argue we're not really that fragile - there's just insane expectations placed on everybody determining how they should act and then we all act like it's weakness when somebody doesn't live up to them.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
yes... both are fragile men tendencywise in social environments while women tendencywise in the physical world more... my standpoint. and we should take care of each other. or of another.
[–]ProveSolution[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
i argue all are equally as fragile; just in different sports:
men tend to be more fragile at social interactons; while women are fragile on the physical.
this must be addressed so we can live more harmonically together.