I am not old enough to drink or go to clubs, I don't go to parties (not by personal preference), and I can't show how desirable I am through my previous sexual partners because I have none. Actually, I had an LTR girlfriend in high school who I did not have sex with and a girl I got into bed with by using RP tactics before I even knew what TRP was, but I don't talk to any of them and never got the close with them.

I am working on improving myself physically and practicing skills and hobbies I enjoy doing. I have a job that pays fairly well and has future career prospects. I don't have much of a social group, but that will change once I join my extracurricular.

So how do I show strangers that I am desirable? Am I even someone who has desirable attributes? Do I feign sexual confidence and act like I have slept with other people, and should I lie about past relationships?

I'm sure plenty of people are experiencing the same thing, and I want to be able to give them help too.