I'm currently living with my LTR of 7 months. Sex is amazing, she is submissive in every aspect and we get along pretty well. I'm the captain of the ship and she is the first mate. My son died a couple years back and her and I were going through some of his old pictures that were on my pc, as I was clicking through them a video popped of my ex-wife giving me the business while we were married. I had been married previously for 10 years and I had totally forgotten about having that on my pc. My LTR handles it pretty well and says she understands that i had no idea that was on there. It was my slothfulness that left that video on there to begin with. She said something that I had no rebuttal for . " I'm not going to punish you for this because i believe you didn't know that was on there ". Even though she was cool about it, her telling me she even thought about punishing me set me off. I held frame, kissed her forehead, took a shower and went to bed. Is there any other way I could have handled that?