Ive noticed in TRP and its corresponding (sub)subreddits there are different sidebar posts. Ive read nearly every one but still havent really put it all together. Im going to order The Rational Male and see if that helps. Any other suggestions anyone can point to? I crush books daily but Ive really been looking for posts on game and speaking and flirting that give specifics since this is the part I struggle the most with, most everything else is all there.