Can't get it up

kingbangalash · 2017-03-24T06:37:02+00:00

I had this problem a few years ago. It's a confidence/anxiety thing. I wasn't able to stay hard after I'd get hard, and I certainly wasn't able to finish for a long, long time. I eventually would stay harder for longer, and finally I was able to cum from sex. If you're anxious in bed you have to try to let that go. Let them turn you on, and don't worry about the problem or it will persist. You have to let it go, and just enjoy sex for what you can make it to be right now.

If you can't get hard then go down on them and see if that helps. Whenever you're horny make a move on them.

To see if this is a physical problem you only need to notice if you wake up hard (morning wood) or not. IF you are getting boners in your sleep then this is not a physiological problem...at least in terms of your penis working or not. Maybe it's hormonal, but I bet it's psychological. What do you think?

pleasehelpkpopme · 2017-03-24T12:04:19+00:00

eat garlic daily and start working out your breath will smell like shit but garlic contains natural no2 which gives you strong fucking boners alternatively buy a cock ring.

if none of that works buy a chin-do and strap it to your chin and fuck them like that because not being able to get it up on multiple occasions completely sober at 22 is frankly pathetic.

ButtslamAntifas1488 · 2017-03-24T17:33:27+00:00

Time to next your dick

kruxofthemimed · 2017-03-24T13:04:18+00:00

I made a post on why eating too much saturated fat (meat, dairy, coconut, palm, cocoa) and cholesterol (animal products, eggs are the worst offenders) can cause plaque build up in the penile arteries which will severely weaken your erections and ruin your ability to get erections. Because your arteries need to dilate in order for your dick to get hard having them full of plaque ruins the blood flow, but also likely means you aren't eating enough nitrous oxide precursor which is the main antioxidant your body uses to dilate your arteries. Eat only plants, the natural antioxidant content will boost your cardiovascular health a ton.

Other than that, stop jerking off. Stop watching porn for good. And make sure you are legit attracted to the women you are fucking. Be dominant

uwotm891 · 2017-03-28T23:51:16+00:00

Won't be a popular opinion, but get some viagra or cialis. You won't have this problem anymore.

BIGJIM2007 · 2017-03-24T06:26:39+00:00

maybe youre gay

Title	Can't get it up
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	March 24, 2017 6:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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