Ive been following the red pill for a few weeks, so to cut a long story short, Since about 3 weeks about me and my SO has a nasty few arguments she was getting out of line and i put her back, she didnt like it shes the controlling type but i dont stand for it. Anyway since that day she has hardly spoke to me weve been together for 9 months. So i ghosted her and after 2 weeks she finally caved in and asked to meet! Ive found out she had access to my facebook as well shes been checking up on me for the last 3 months i havent even brought that up. So we meet up and she was shit testing like there was no tomorrow of which i just used amused mastery and amplify and absurdity to pass, she didnt want to initiate any affection at all so i just left her to it. Met again yesterday and she was the same was like trying to get blood out of a stone and if i hadnt had a drink id of hightailed there and then and left her to it. this morning i got up and said im wasting my time with you and she said i dont know what you want me to say so i parted way i get a text off her about an hour later apologising saying she feels overwhelemed and annoyed all of the time not just when we are together and she needs time. Dont get me wrong ill admit it was more bluepill at the start of the LTR but i soon changed.

Just lay down NC and go from there, i have a manual job i work out 3 times a week and also play football. I make sure as hell my social life is just as important to.

Shes had a lot of stress with uni and work and suffered with anxiety and depression alot as well

Just want a little guidance from fellow redpillers