I was with friends at a bar. We constantly go out, this really helps with my approaches because the social vibe. Anyways to make it short I started hitting on our waitresses. We had 2 because the bar and the food joint are so close together.

First waitress was hb6 maybe 7. Started talking to her and quickly realized her english was limited but ultimately she said she was married. ok no problem.

Started hitting on the second waitress...HB7. Grabbed her hand when she brought our drinks and started asking her if she was single and such.

she smiled and said yes. I asked for her number and she insisted on giving me her instagram because she isn't looking to date anyone. playfully I said fuck that I want your number. She gave me her number and she went to service the other customers.

I kept on with my friends drinking and chit chatting. we started talking to this other group of people at the bar. One of guy's gf wanted to know if I was colombian. It was funny because we were eye balling each other for 15 mins as she was dancing with her guy.

anyways....before I left I pulled in the waitress just to emphasize I do plan to contact her. she says she's not looking for anyone. Asked her if she works everyday...she has 2 days off but wouldn't tell me. I didn't make the effort to push what days she had off.

Some details I thought were important on this approach.

  • I was holding her hands when I asked for her number.
  • Had her wrapped around my arms every time she came back to our table.
  • She didn't resist my advances.
  • Still friendly didn't change mood at all (maybe because she's at work?)

So how should I handle this. Should I next her or should I try and see where it goes?