I found TRP about 6 months ago and its been great. I've been able to develop a pretty solid frame to the point where I didn't need to think about what I was saying anymore. I was passing shit tests from women with flying colors, and men too.

But recently I took an old job I had before I found TRP. One thing I noticed is once I was around all of my old co-workers before I found TRP, I snapped right back into my beta behaviors, I started making excuses for myself, people were constantly disrespecting me and I was just letting them get away with it, I was failing shit test by women (I'm decent looking so I get them pretty often, not bragging just saying). It really shook me up.

By the end of the day I finally started to get a grip of what was happening and started to come to it again.

Theirs a girl that works there that tried to get me to fuck her at a bar one night and was constantly talking about "fingering my butthole". I told all her friends what she was doing (kinda beta move, didn't know any better at the time). Now she's constantly disrespecting me at work and its really inhibiting my ability to focus on what I'm doing. There's another guy that called me an idiot to my face once he found out I voted for trump, and ever since then he's been a complete douche to me. At the time in my more beta days I just let it all slide but now that i've swallowed the pill, every time he calls me a bitch I want to knock his fucking teeth out and he's really starting to fucking get to me, or should I say, he's gotten to me.

What's crazy about the hole thing is that I hadn't even considered any of this, it totally took me by surprise, when I first walked into the old job I had no idea what was happening to me, but I'm starting to get a grip on it.

I guess I'm grateful for the whole experience, I guess I'm not as strong as I thought I was, I'm just looking for some help on how to deal with people like this. I think I'm going to walk up to the girl and the guy, and just say "stop talking to me". And if they ask my why I'll be more than happy to explain it to them, but I'm done with both of them.

I guess my question is:

Is it possible to have 100% frame?

I heard a quote from Mike Tyson once and he said "everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face." This kinda reminds me of that.

Anyways thanks for listening.