A man posted his story of abuse from his feminist mother on r/raisedbynarcissists

goodmod · 2019-01-18T02:28:13+00:00

This thread has been removed because it directly links to a support subreddit. This can be taken as an attempt to encourage brigading, which is against reddit rules and may result in shadowbans.

In instances such as this, a screenshot should be used instead of a direct link.

antilopes · 2019-01-17T23:38:18+00:00

This sort of post is one reason MensRights posters are auto-banned on some subs. Brigading can be a problem on any sub but support subs are especially sensitive to it.

Linking to a particular thread can be a problem in any sub, but doing so to a sub where visitors will be both out of their depth and unaware of it is inviting disaster.
Failing to replace www with np (no participation) makes it even worse and is specifically banned by MensRights rules.

Here is the standard first comment automatically sent to all posts on that sub for the benefit of people who don't know how to read the sidebar or who feel it is beneath them to do so:

RBN is a support group that is moderated very strictly. Please report inappropriate content so it can be reviewed by the mods.

Our rules include (but are not limited to):

No politics.
Advising anyone in this subreddit to commit suicide or referring anyone to groups that advocate this will result in an immediate ban.
Be nice. No personal attacks, name calling, or bullying. No slurs or victim-blaming.
Do not derail the posts of others.
Narcissists are NOT allowed to post or comment here.
Please refrain from posting "uplifting" threads.
When you comment/post, assume a context of abuse.
No asking or offering gifts, money, etc.
No content advocating violence, revenge, murder (even in jest).
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For a full list of our rules/more information, click here.

The mods later issued a reminder:
Please focus on supporting the OP. This is not the place to start a debate about what constitutes feminism. This nmother demonstrates misandry, and the OP suffered under that behaviour. Comments that generally discuss feminism without referencing the OP's particular situation will be removed.

Later:
Thank you to the many users that offered support to OP. Because this can be a controversial topic and the post has been linked to in other subreddits, the thread is now being locked.

Ceddit shows six comments deleted by mods. Nearly all of them were "that's not feminism"
(To use Ceddit, replace the R in Reddit with a C in the URL).

Y33TtheB8 · 2019-01-17T20:38:42+00:00

Inb4 it gets locked cause " Feminists can't be in the wrong , you'll are just whiny man babies "

Title	A man posted his story of abuse from his feminist mother on r/raisedbynarcissists
Author	Virtual-Knight
Upvotes	21
Comments	6
Date	January 17, 2019 6:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ah0qx4/a_man_posted_his_story_of_abuse_from_his_feminist/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/a-man-posted-his-story-of-abuse-from-his-feminist.886072 https://theredarchive.com/post/886072