So I decided to make this account just now for posting. I've been around TRP for quite some time just reading posts however now actual life events have brought me to a question that so far I haven't been able to just tackle myself.

I will not admit to being a perfect example of TRP philosophy. I know that I should be in the gym more and working towards bettering my career, all of which I am trying to further myself in currently.

However recently I met this girl(The cliche start to the majority of these posts) and I was really not expecting anything of it. I set it up to be a FWB situation, I was fully intent on it just being a one time fling. However since that time we have mutually been wanting to see each other whenever possible to the point of it being every day so far.

Formerly(And it's recent enough to still be currently) I was content with just juggling a handful or two of girls that I didn't mind giving a phone call, setting something up, having fun and then leaving the next day.

The constant cure I hear for Oneits is "Go out there and get more girls." "I don't know the term 'plate', but I know the term 'plates'"

etc etc etc. However I feel that I have that and for whatever stupid reason I keep bringing myself back to this girl. And frankly I know that she is probably no good in the long run. She has some great LTR tendencies, but she also has enough red flags for me to know I shouldn't go down that path.

My question is what do you do when you know that you have oneitis for a girl despite the fact that you have your own staple of plates or don't have an issue getting other girls? You know the girl in the long run isn't going to result in a good LTR due to her qualities.

I honestly feel stupid for very quickly feeling like I got attached to this completely random encounter that I tried to push towards a FWB and somehow found myself feeling for more than that. It honestly hasn't happened since I was years younger and I'm at a loss with how I should proceed?

Should I cut things off for my own personal growth?

Is there anything innately wrong with feeling this way?

What would you do in my situation?

Should I drop all other girls since they don't seem to produce such interest, and build a stable of girls that do?

I'd love any insight and help someone can provide. I don't think it's the typical oneitis question, because I know she can't be 'The one', but I just want her even though I know she's probably not the best for me.