So just briefly... I met this girl 2 months ago. She is half of my age. I'm 42, she is 22. (not a problem for me for sure) She is really pretty, HB8 on my scale, but very shy, she doesn't talk to anyone except with people she knows for a long time. She is that shy. I mean I have never seen someone this shy. I'm not that shy though, I talk to anyone, I having fun with people, I was having fun with one of her girlfriend too.

After a while I realised that in her very shy way she's trying to find excuses to talk to me (and there were many other IOIs as well). So I helped her, and she slowly opened up. Now we are talking a lot. I know she likes me, she knows I like her. I know we got to the point where I have to make the next move, asking her out.

But as it turned out a few days ago, she actually has a boyfriend for 4-5 years. She has never mentioned me this tiny detail. I just found this out accidentally talking with another woman. I mean it is like she is hiding this fact from me on purpose.

So what's her game? And what should I do?