I've been seeing a plate for a few weeks and things have been going well. We only text for logistics and occasionally send snaps. Here are my questions:

  1. How often should I be the one who is initiating (telling her to come over)? Does the golden ratio (2:3) apply here, or should it be up to the man to lead for sex?

  2. If I initiated last time, should I wait until she initiates next time?