He's been with this disgrace for a few years they've had two kids together both taken at birth by social services and and given straight to my mother, both are druggies and she is also an alcoholic and did coke while pregnant with each kid.
A few weeks ago they split up and he knows she was seeing a neighbor of theirs but couldn't prove it (she's now with this guy since he left), she left for her mothers one day and the mother texted him to leave she wanted him gone so we picked him up and since then she's turned nasty but my brother hasn't bothered her aside from replying to her messages, we've even seen his phone so we know he hasn't threatened her or said anything about coming down to see her so why it got the order is a mystery outside trying something spiteful in regards to him seeing the kids as BOTH parents are under a 12 month court order for supervised visits under social services for the recent child, after that it reverts to grandmothers discretion like with the first child is now.
In the order she's fabricated an incident about an attack that she says the neighbor called the police (yes the guy shes banging) she also lied about the reason the most recent child was removed from their care saying social services deemed him a risk, this rat has 6 kids to different guys all taken off HER not the guys she was with and this one was because neither of them got off drugs and she did the coke while pregnant, plus her past was taken into consideration with having four others, (AND her mother and other family members have some sort of Pedo conviction and are forbidden from contact with the kids).
Does anyone have any experience with this kind of order whats the best next step to help him this Jeremy Kyle shit is beyond me.
Edit: ill put some more info in from the order once iv'e seen it properly im just going off what mum told me over the blower.
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I've never seen this happen.
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I am not a lawyer but I've spent many years delivering them. The non-molestation order is to stop one person for harassing another. This is normally in the form of not contacting the person except through their solicitors and not going with 100m of any place they are living. It normally doesn't say anything about contacts with the kids. Sometimes after the Non-Mol there's a children act order that sorts out contact, but in your brothers situation it look like the social services have that in their control. There's almost no way to stop the order because if someone doesn't want contact that normally a fair request. It's easy to get the order because because its on the balance of probabilities, not beyond reasonable doubt because its a county court. It's not criminal unless he breaches the order and they usually expire after 12 months. The best thing he can do is comply with the order and present a statement at court laying out his objections so that if it is brought up in meetings he can point out that he complied with the order which was baseless anyway. In court, if he rants and raves he'll come off worse than if he turns up in a clean shirt and presents himself as a responsible and calm adult.
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