I have been seeing this plate for a few months now. I made the mistake of eventually coming over almost every night and becoming friends. I want to cut back and meet other girls, which is something we talked about. The benefits are nice, sex anytime and free food, etc. I think I've become her defacto boyfriend but we agreed that we aren't dating.

The problem now is that if I don't come over as often as I used to, she ends up going crazy. This means non stop texting and calls all night that I always ignore. She also makes up fake drama and threatens to message my parents on facebook if I stop coming over as often. I don't think she would do any of this stuff but who knows what she will do. She also tries to manipulate me by texting me about some other guy she's fucking when I'm not coming over that night (she claims she doesn't fuck anyone else). Recently I told her I'm talking to other girls, but now she's talking to some guy blatantly when I'm there, so idk if that's rude or if I shouldn't care because I still fuck her. I want to cut back on coming over and meet other girls instead, but I'm honestly scared of the consequences. What can I do?