There's this super nice girl I often hang out with, text quite often. She has a car so at times she will drive us around and sometimes when we go about she doesn't mind paying. We've made out a few times and we almost had sex once but due to poor planning on my side, I didn't have condoms on me at that very moment. Fail.

She's told me how she wants to be cool with me and be my friend which I straight up told her I'm not up for because I find her sexually attractive. She's complained about how touchy I am with her and how she feels like I only want sex from her. Here is the tricky part, she's been over to my place 5 times and whenever I try to initiate something she tells me she's not the kind of girl, she doesn't do such things with guys, it will be complicated and she wants to keep things normal between us but when I kiss her, she always gets into it. Bear in mind, she often comes to my place in the evening and she will often go home past midnight. During one make out session she told me how she likes me, her body wants it but her mind just refuses. This happens every time. She will really get into the making out, dig her nails into me but that's where it ends all the time.

She's a really easy going girl that would be cool friend to have but unfortunately my penis doesn't agree. She's a bit insecure and doesn't see her as beautiful, she describes herself as "just okay" How do I proceed to making this a sexual relationship? or should I just be a douche and bail because it's a bit difficult to be just friends with her. I've asked her a few times what's going on between us and she always tells me she doesn't know.