Okay so, I lurked the TRP forums for a while and applied the methods. I started lifting, talk to people, an pretty much did everything in the sidebar. Shit stared looking up for me and I got into this LTR with a pretty great girl (actually stole her from an obiter, good times). So she's stuck with me and I attribute this to the side bar, but it seems we've come to a problem.
I was talking to a mutual friend of ours (my ltr and I) and this friend told me that my ltr was afraid to bring her problems to me. Apparently, I had gotten my shit together to the point were I intimidated her. You see, she occasionally has panic attacks (something she didn't tell me about) and tries to hid them from me. I don't know if she's afraid of loosing me, or just afraid of me.
So, I don't know how to approach this. On one hand, I've read that I should try to keep my emotions away from her and try to avoid hers, on the other hand, she's hurting and I want to protect my girl. So how would you guys handle this?
TLDR: My ltr is having panic attacks and is trying to hide them from me. I want to help her out.
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