Night Club Gaming: how do i go from being "the fun guy" that girls wanna dance with, to "the Sexual guy" that takes a girl home?

Throwawaysteve123456 · 2017-07-03T09:13:49+00:00

You sort of answered your own question. You are doing it right, but only steps 1 and 2. You need to hone in a girl in a group, while still being friendly to the group, and then try and move to more sexual dancing. Fun dancing is what attracts them, and sexual dancing is how you communicate that you'll take them to pound town after. I don't see how this would be hard? Just gradually become more physical with her. Also, a really good trick that I'm fantastic at, is get HER to make moves on you. You can sort of dance in a way that invites her to become more physical with you, it's sort of hard to describe.

A classic trick is when you want to make it more sexual, simply grab her arm and put it around you, 'invite' her to explore you a bit.

Start with uncomfortable eye contact, then just gradually make it more physical. You should see other guys pulling off the same thing. Good luck man.

I also find women LOVE dominating men when it comes to dancing. I am VERY forceful and completely control the girl, lots of moves, but I 100% dictate the pace, every time. Once you're dancing 1-1 with her, dominate her, and show good rhythm. To her, that communicates what you'll be doing later.

vandaalen · 2017-07-03T10:20:20+00:00

how to isolate a girl

"Let's get some fresh air." Grab her hand and head outside. Or even just grab her hand and head outside without saying anything.

I've never been the avid dancer, so I wouldn't bother woth escalating on the dancefloor, but do it once isolated her. I'll usually be pretty fast with it then though.

Caplock12 · 2017-07-03T13:35:05+00:00

I'm fairly new to TRP, but I have something that could help in my recent experiences. I noticed that if you label things like "The sexual guy who takes a girl home" then that's all it is, just a label. The guy being labeled is just a guy with game knowledge, what's the difference? There isn't any difference between you and him, he's a complete stranger, no one knows anything about him, he just acts as if he naturally does this on a regular basis and that's all it takes. A confidant mindset, no'body' is different, it's all about the mindset. You could just own up to it and in your mind become the guy who takes the girls home, all it takes is mind strength that you have it in you and success will quickly fall behind, keeping in mind that in life unfortunate things do happen and if failure happened you just have to accept it and basically forget about it. My mind is coming up with a theory that our past isn't needed, If we forgot about all of our past we'd truly be who came out of the womb. (On mobile)

MattyAnon · 2017-07-03T13:56:16+00:00

anyways, here's my weakness I want to fix: How do i transition from this "fun DGAF dude in the dance floor" to "Sexual guy that successfully brings a girl home"?

Escalate.

Isolation is after some degree of mutual interest. It's easy to do once you know to actually do it.

Be more sexual, more sexually risky. It will alienate a few of the girls who mistakenly thought "here's a gay friend for me".

EDIT: to put it another way....it's as if im getting friend zoned, despite attracting more female attention than almost any other single male in the club, which is weird. But it makes sense when im not properly doing sexual escalation.

Exactly.

blackedoutfast · 2017-07-03T16:31:10+00:00

yeah i know what you're talking about. you can get past their bitch-shields / creepy guy defenses, but then you run the risk of going too far and end up seeming gay/asexual/just another one of the girls. you just need to transition from being part of the gay group of girls dancing in a circle to dancing with one particular girl.

i like to grab one girl's hand and start spinning her around. it's stupid but every girl loves it when a guy starts doing the stupid spin shit when they're dancing. it makes them feel like a princess or something idk. it's hard to explain but really not that complicated: spin one way, spin the other way, spin her away from you, and then pull her back so she ends up with her body pressed next to yours with you arm wrapped around her and then stay like that and keep dancing. use a lot of sexual hip movement and direct eye contact. then just keep escalating/isolate and you're good to go.

it doesn't even have to fit the type of music. if you go to a salsa/latin dance night you can see a lot of that kind of stuff you can steal and use in other environments.

Maddash · 2017-07-03T20:30:32+00:00

Kino, Kino ! Tonna Kino to win !

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