Hey guys.

I've been exclusive with this girl for about 6 months. The thing is while I first met her I had all these girls I was spinning, she knew about it. I encuraged her to go out on dates and just didint give a fuck. I had a whole echosystem of good things in my life that made her less important to me.

This is the first time I've ever gone in to exclusivity out of my own choice of her and from a lot of options. Previously I've only had that one option and just went with it because it was easy.

This time around though I lost all those things that made me a really confident and cool guy. Its not too bad yet but if I dont fill my life with shit that'll make me forget about her for a while Itll end badly.

I used to go out to the clubs and the bars with my freetime, have girls come over to my place and just fill my life with pussy. Its really not working in the long run, and Im just finding out for myself. I want to make her the 4th most important thing in my life and I dont know where to start really.

Thanks