I am beyond confused. I am fairly attractive, 5'10 but wear 3 inch insoles so 6'1 on dates, have good facial aesthetics, and been working out for a year and a half. Lots of girls are interested in me and we go on dates but I can never close (4 dates at this point and made out at end of every one, not a single girl back to my place). I am not socially inept but used to be VERY beta and a good listener/people pleaser. Generally I take the lead in conversations by asking a lot of questions and teasing a lot. Sometimes because I am somewhat lonely I feel that I may answer questions poorly by being too honest and breaking frame by sharing honest feelings but again this is hard to gauge. How do people close on dates and what are the social dynamics to be aware of? I recently came across the DENNIS system which looks funny and promising but I can't help but feel I am too used to being friendly. One thing I will say though is that I do physically escalate fast but I feel like this almost comes across as needy but again hard to gauge.